Relationships are so important. Whether it be friendships, intimate relationships or work relationships, they can really make or break a day. How you treat others and how you are treated back has a lot to do with your level of happiness.
Fulfilling relationships can greatly improve your quality of life. You can’t control how others are going to treat you. Although, excepting that and putting your energy into being the kind of person that you want to be is 100% in your control. That is huge. The irony is, if you can stay consistent with how you are to others, it will be reflected back to you eventually via the people that start coming into your life. I can’t tell you when and how, but it’s just apart of the natural flow of how it all works.
So, if you’re finding yourself disappointed with who is around you, step up your game in terms of how you treat others. Focusing on being positive and a good friend, partner and co-worker is a much more productive way to spend your energy than thinking how others have the issue.
Maybe they do, but that thought and way of focusing your energy doesn’t help you to change your situation and feel better about your relationship life.
Be the kind of person that you would want in your life. It’s only a matter of time that you will begin to attract the kinds of relationships that you are looking for.
* The above image was taken by Amy Lynn Bjornson, a San Diego based photographer at Fiesta Island in San Diego.