EFFORTLESS is defined as “requiring no physical or mental exertion.” To me, effortless is a look, a feeling and lacks “trying too hard.”
IT JUST IS. IT'S EASY.
It shows up within the person who catches your eye because they look and act comfortable with who they are; just as they are. A person who exudes naturalness without force. This person feels, looks and acts confident and gives off attractive energy. You want to be in their space. You want to be around them. Dam, you want to be them!
Life can be much more enjoyable when you’re not caught up in the mundane details of something that goes against who and what you stand for and represent. Personally, I find it refreshing and alluring to be around these people. Learning how to gain a sense of being effortless within your own life can allow you to eliminate the noise to details and things that deplete your energy.
Today, think less about the little things, which in the long run are details that will not matter. Play around with putting time into embracing your natural qualities and unique sense of self. Allow your day to flow with more ease by just allowing yourself to be; just be you. Quiet the voice that convinces you to fix your faults about your physical appearance. Stop stressing about purchasing the next “must have item” because you think that it will make you a more valid and worthy person. (It won't.) That’s all noise. It’s not real. It’s just a false story that you’re telling yourself that leads you away from your natural vibe and confident self.
Rid yourself of the trying too hard to be something other than yourself. Ditch that behavior. Just Be. Be effortless.
* The above image was taken in Glamis by Renata Amazonas, San Diego based photographer.